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		<title>Get It, Together!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 03:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Source If you were hoping to read a post about how to get it together, you will be disappointed. This post is more about “getting it” together; an invitation to join me as I (once again!) embark on that journey. Let me explain! Every so often, I really do feel that I have it all [...]<p>-------------------
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<p>If you were hoping to read a post about how to get it together, you will be disappointed. This post is more about “getting it” together; an invitation to join me as I (once again!) embark on that journey. Let me explain!</p>
<p><strong>Every so often, I really do feel that I have it all together.</strong> I’m sure you do too. You look around and find that your home is mostly in order, your to-do list is relatively small, <strong>your days have fallen into a routine, you’ve mostly figured out how to juggle all the responsibly you have. We do that, smiling to ourselves…and then **bang** a new ball is tossed our way.</strong> While we may have graduated from the beginners class at juggling school, this new ball throws us off.</p>
<p>I’m sure some of you are nodding right now. You know just what I am talking about! For those of you who are scratching your heads thinking, “she went to juggling school?” I didn’t really. It’s my sad attempt at an analogy. </p>
<p>&#160;</p>
<p>Anyway, life is running smoothly and then you:</p>
<ul>
<li>Change jobs </li>
<li>Move </li>
<li>Get married </li>
<li>Have a baby </li>
<li>Experience a loss </li>
<li>Move to a different phase in life </li>
<li>Or your little (and not so little) ones move to a different phase in life </li>
<li>You accept new responsibilities </li>
<li>Your finances change </li>
<li>and the list goes on…and on…and on.. </li>
</ul>
<p>Suddenly, (back to the juggling analogy) with that new ball thrown at you, you’ve either</p>
<ol>
<li>Caught it no problem and are expertly managing just dandy or </li>
<li>You’ve dropped them all and are looking around, bewildered and wondering how to get back into the game or </li>
<li>You caught it but you’re precariously throwing the balls with no sense of rhythm and are in danger of dropping them all. </li>
</ol>
<p>I’m number three. After John was born in the summer of 2008, it took me a while to get back into a routine and adjust to being a mom of two. I did find my groove though. As the little ones grew and I accepted different responsibilities and tasks, my routine changed as well and I embraced it. I’m not sure what happened in the <strong>past several weeks but suddenly I find myself with new opportunities, responsibilities and tasks but no routine, no plan and I’m starting to flounder…</strong></p>
<p><strong><font color="#ff0080" size="4">Step One &#8211; STOP</font></strong></p>
<p>Stop. <strong>Don’t run in circles, or paralyze yourself with defeating thoughts.</strong> Just stop. Breathe. Have a nap, go for a walk, eat some chocolate, pray, read your bible or a good book. If you have littles, utilize nap time for yourself or snuggle up with them and read.&#160; <strong>When you get too busy, your calendar and to-do list too full, sometimes it is easy to become overwhelmed and defeated.</strong> Take a break. I’m not saying a long one but <strong>give yourself permission to just stop.</strong> Whether it is 10 minutes or a whole afternoon just do something nice.</p>
<p><strong><font color="#ff0080" size="4">Step Two – EMPTY YOUR HEAD</font></strong></p>
<p>Brain Dump. No idea whose idea this was originally but it isn’t mine I’m sure. I think I heard it for the first time listening to the workshop tapes from Graceworks though I think it was called something else. Anyway, <strong>write a list of everything that is in your head.</strong> Write down your grocery store shopping list, upcoming doctor visits, birthdays, your daily household duties, the tasks your husband asked you to get done this week, the commitments you made for church…absolutely everything! <strong>Don’t worry about rhyme or reason.</strong> We’ll sort it out later. <strong>And keep that list handy and&#160; running</strong>. Often as we go about our days, something else will come to mind. Add it to the list too!</p>
<p><strong><font color="#ff0080" size="4">Step Three – FILL YOUR HEART</font></strong></p>
<p>When things get hectic and crazy, often devotions are the first thing on the chopping block because we (me!) don’t have time but the truth is we don’t have time not to! While we (I) will eventually share more of what my schedule will look like and how I will (Lord-willing!) get everything done that I need to, <strong>for now we want to empty our heads (step 2) and fill our hearts. The</strong> first thing to make sure is that I <em>start </em>my day with quiet time. Now I say <em>start</em> but <strong>my day always starts before I have quiet time, I just try not to let it move on too much before I sit, pray and read my bible.</strong> I am not one of those who can get up before my family to have my alone time with the Lord. It is something that I always aspired to and felt guilty about not accomplishing because that is what <em>good </em>Christian wives and mothers do isn’t it? <strong>Well, that may be what good Christians do but often real mothers just can’t get quiet time first.</strong> (Side note: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Passionate-Housewives-Desperate-Jennie-Chancey/dp/1934554154/ref=pd_bxgy_b_img_a" target="_blank">Passionate Housewives Desperate for God</a> is a must-read that talks about this!) <strong>Most times my quiet time isn’t as quiet as I would like or as long as I’d hoped or as alone as I’d like. But that is my season.</strong> God can (and does!) use every little bit of my time that I commit to him. A bonus? My little ones witness first hand their mommy spending time with the Lord. Some mornings I shower, get Chloe and I dressed and then have some QT but other mornings, depending on John, it may not be until after breakfast. I <strike>always</strike> most days try to get it in ASAP. <strong>As I seek to bring back the elusive order and routine, I will first seek Him!</strong></p>
<p><em>That’s it for this week folks. Take a little break and make a list. Make the Lord a priority this week. We can do that can’t we? I’d love to hear how and when you have quiet time!</em></p>
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		<title>Family Traditions: Embracing Change</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Dec 2009 20:47:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Photo by Zellaby Years ago, when our family was experiencing some dramatic changes, my mother wrote this poem. As a young adult, almost out of my teens, I had dismissed it just mom’s ramblings (sorry mom!). But having come across it last week in my recipe box, I read it again; this time through the [...]<p>-------------------
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<p align="center">Photo by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/toymaster/328543302/" target="_blank">Zellaby</a></p>
<p align="left"><font size="2">Years ago, when our family was experiencing some dramatic changes, my mother wrote this poem. As a young adult, almost out of my teens, I had dismissed it just mom’s ramblings (sorry mom!). But having come across it last week in my recipe box, I read it again; this time through the eyes of a grown daughter with children of my own and it suddenly had meaning for me.</font></p>
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<blockquote><p align="left"><font size="2">In the beginning things were done, as we thought they ought to be.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Repeated twice they became, a part of our history.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Each year some change would&#160; along, often very slight.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Another year we’d try a change, but it just wasn’t quite right.</font></p>
<p><font size="2"></font></p>
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<blockquote><p><font size="2"></font></p>
<p><font size="2">Some changes did occur,that really caused a struggle.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">At those times we’d weight the cost, to justify the trouble.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Often things could not be helped; the change had to be embraced.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Accept the change, repeat it twice, tradition now replaced.</font></p>
<p><font size="2"></font></p>
<p><font size="2"></font></p>
<p><font size="2">Sometimes the change seemed threatening, uncomfortable at start.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Tradition roots run deep within; those memories of the heart.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Times in our lives we had to let go and tearfully move on,</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Cherishing those special memories of times that are now gone.</font></p>
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<p><font size="2"></font></p>
<p><font size="2">Memories remembered, are added to the new, </font></p>
<p><font size="2">For they are part of who we are and what we say or do.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Looking through the years of time tradition inevitably changes,</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Yet history in the family continues through the ages.</font></p>
<p><font size="2"></font></p>
<p><font size="2"></font></p>
<p><font size="2">Searching through the history to find what is the same,</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Knowing it is precious; trying to find the name.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">So many memories to ponder, and lovingly restore:</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Good food, fun times and blessings so many times before.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">The answer so apparent: it’s the Love of Christ you see!</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Bigger than all traditions, He’s the bond in family!</font></p>
<p>&#160;</p>
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<p><em><font size="3">This year we have several things that will be different. With my grandfather passing, my grandmother’s health, changes in relationships with siblings (especially since Keith is now in Australia!); there are so many things that won’t be done “like we <u>always</u> do it!” I don’t like change! But if I am to have joy, I need to embrace inevitable changes. <strong>Praise the Lord that HE never changes!</strong></font></em></p>
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<p><font size="3"><strong>The Challenge?</strong> Embrace new traditions this year! What changes have you been resisting for the sake of tradition? Is there something that you need to stop resisting and embrace?</font></p>
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<p align="center"><font size="2">What is Tune-Up Tuesday? Find out more </font><a href="http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/06/tune-up-tuesday-tune-up.html"><font size="2">HERE</font></a><font size="2">!</font></p>
<p><strong><em><font size="2">Do you have a tune-up you are working on or completed? Link up (directly to your post) or share a comment! If you could mention </font></em></strong><a href="http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/06/tune-up-tuesday-tune-up.html"><strong><em><font size="2">TUT</font></em></strong></a><strong><em><font size="2"> and link back so others can join in too, that would be appreciated!</font></em></strong></p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 01:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A Google search of the word &#8216;Tune-Up&#8217; revealed the following definition:An Adjustment for Better FunctioningA search for the definition of &#8216;Adjustment&#8217; revealed the following:A Small Change, A Minor Correction, A ModificationMore on Tune-Up Tuesday here.&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;- Photo by AYUMI “Finally, brethren,..if there be any praise, think on these things.” In the beginning of your relationship, you [...]<p>-------------------
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p align="center">A Google search of the word &#8216;Tune-Up&#8217; revealed the following definition:<br />An Adjustment for Better Functioning<br />A search for the definition of &#8216;Adjustment&#8217; revealed the following:<br />A Small Change, A Minor Correction, A Modification<br />More on Tune-Up Tuesday <a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/02/what-is-tune-up-tuesday.html">here</a>.<br />&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-</p>
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<p><span style="font-size:130%;"><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Philippians%204:8;&amp;version=9;" target="_blank">“Finally, brethren,..if there be any praise, think on these things.”</a></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:130%;">In the beginning of your relationship, you probably accumulated quite a list of positive attributes about your spouse; all those things that you loved about them that made you want to marry them. If you were like me, you thought about those wonderful qualities often (maybe even with that sappy, dreamy look in your eyes LOL). Then, once you got married and began living together, suddenly a whole new list started. Maybe you didn’t mean for this list to start – I certainly didn’t. But out of hurt feelings, unmet expectations or just plain selfishness, this list was created: the weaknesses, irritating traits and failings of your spouse. It&#8217;s not long, but it is there.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:130%;">When we dwell on the first list – the positive one; we are thankful for our spouse and our appreciation for him increases. When we begin to think about aspects of the second list, our hearts begin to devalue our spouse and it’s a slippery slope from there. It can drain our joy and the love right out of our marriage. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:130%;">Love isn’t oblivious to anything, it is well aware that the negative qualities exist but it chooses to be gracious not to focus on them. Whether or not they deserve it, Love chooses to see the best and pray about the rest! (that rhymes!)</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>Challenge:</strong> This week, make a list of your spouses good attributes. Aim for 10! Next Tuesday, I’ll be posting mine and you are welcome to post yours as well and link up!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>Verses:</strong> </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Philippians%204:8;&amp;version=9;" target="_blank">Philippians 4:8</a><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><span style="font-size:130%;">, </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1%20Corinthians%2013:7;&amp;version=9;" target="_blank"><span style="font-size:130%;">1 Corinthians 13:7</span></a></p>
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<p><em>And litte PS. I am very much in love with the awesome man God has given me, but there are moments when I become ungrateful&#8230;those are the moments I want to work on&#8230;</em></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:85%;">You can follow along here however I really recommend picking up a copy of <a href="http://astore.amazon.com/ebabble0c-20/detail/0805448853/191-1192139-1603839" target="_blank">The Love Dare</a></span><span style="font-size:85%;"></span><span style="font-size:85%;"> for yourself. It contains so much more than what I am sharing here. You can purchase one by clicking the appropriate button on my right sidebar to go to my A-Store.</span></p>
<p>Related posts: <a href="http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/03/loving-my-god-loving-my-man.html">Loving My God, Loving My Man</a>, <a href="http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/03/tune-up-tuesday-double-love-dare.html">Love is Patient</a>, <a href="http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/03/tune-up-tuesday-double-love-dare-2-3.html">Love is Kind &amp; Not Selfish</a>, <a href="http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/04/tune-up-tuesday-thoughtfulness-4.html">Thoughtfulness</a>, <a href="http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/04/tut-are-you-irritating-or-irritable.html" target="_blank">Irritating or Irritable?</a><br />==========================================================</p>
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		<title>TUT: Are You Irritating or Irritable?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2009 02:03:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A google search of the word &#8216;Tune-Up&#8217; revealed the following definition:An Adjustment for Better FunctioningA search for the definition of &#8216;Adjustment&#8217; revealed the following:A Small Change, A Minor Correction, A ModificationMore on Tune-Up Tuesday here.&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;- Photo by ms formica dinette I don’t like to think of myself as being irritating, but I know that I [...]<p>-------------------
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p align="center">A google search of the word &#8216;Tune-Up&#8217; revealed the following definition:<br />An Adjustment for Better Functioning<br />A search for the definition of &#8216;Adjustment&#8217; revealed the following:<br />A Small Change, A Minor Correction, A Modification<br />More on Tune-Up Tuesday <a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/02/what-is-tune-up-tuesday.html">here</a>.<br />&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-</p>
<p align="center"><span style="font-size:85%;"><a href="http://lh5.ggpht.com/_Y6VOSNqb-bo/Se0ppdkiI-I/AAAAAAAAAhs/jIbf_JA4iRM/s1600-h/Flower%20Heart%5B2%5D.jpg"><img title="Flower Heart" style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-TOP: 0px; DISPLAY: block; FLOAT: none; MARGIN-LEFT: auto; BORDER-LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-RIGHT: auto; BORDER-BOTTOM: 0px" height="244" alt="Flower Heart" src="http://lh3.ggpht.com/_Y6VOSNqb-bo/Se0pp4HOwuI/AAAAAAAAAhw/ntgpwVvBMU4/Flower%20Heart_thumb.jpg?imgmax=800" width="184" border="0" /></a><span style="font-size:78%;">Photo by </span><a href="http://www.flickr.com/" target="_blank"><span style="font-size:78%;">ms formica dinette</span></a></span></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-size:130%;">I don’t like to think of myself as being irritating, but I know that I am at times. Please don’t be offended, but I bet you can be too! We know what buttons to push and sometimes we choose to push them. Sometimes, whether it is out of ignorance or selfishness, we are rude. It can be in our speech, tone or actions that we act in a way that embarrasses our spouse, irritates him or both.</span></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-size:130%;">Perhaps there are things about your spouse that you find irritating. I know do. Many times being irritable or snappy has nothing to do with the actual issue and more to do with stress and/or selfishness. But in love, minor things shouldn’t result in major reactions.</span></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-size:130%;"><a href="http://astore.amazon.com/ebabble0c-20/detail/0805448853/191-1192139-1603839">The Love Dare</a> says, <strong>“A loving wife is not overly sensitive or cranky but exercises emotional self-control. She chooses to be a flower among the thorns and respond pleasantly to prickly situations.”</strong> I love that saying. I think I may put it on an index card and magnet it to my microwave to remind me. Where does emotional self-control come from? Yourself? I hope not. When I depend on myself for that self-control I am afraid that I fail miserably. It can only come from the Lord. When that feeling starts to creep up – you know what I am talking about – before things escalate, send up a quick prayer for that emotional self-control!</span></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-size:130%;">As I was writing this, </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=colossians%203:23;&amp;version=9;" target="_blank"><span style="font-size:130%;">Colossians 3:23</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;"> sprung to mind. Not that I believe that if we are going to be irritable that we should do it heartily, but rather that when we are irritable to others, we are being irritable to the Lord as well. Now that is a sobering thought isn’t it??!?!</span></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-size:130%;"><u><strong>This Weeks Challenges:</strong></u> Ask (without being on the defensive) your spouse what 3 things they find irritating about you and see what you can do about them. Choose to respond in loving ways this week regardless of your mood or the circumstances.</span></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-size:130%;">Verses: </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%2027:14;&amp;version=9;" target="_blank"><span style="font-size:130%;">Proverbs 27:14</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">, </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%2025:24;&amp;version=9;" target="_blank"><span style="font-size:130%;">Proverbs 25:24</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">, </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Psalm%20112:5;&amp;version=9;" target="_blank"><span style="font-size:130%;">Psalm 112:5</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">, </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Luke%206:31;&amp;version=9;" target="_blank"><span style="font-size:130%;">Luke 6:31</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">, </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ecclesiastes%2010:12;&amp;version=9;" target="_blank"><span style="font-size:130%;">Ecclesiastes 10:12</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">, </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%2016:32;&amp;version=9;" target="_blank"><span style="font-size:130%;">Proverbs 16:32</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">, </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Colossians%203:12-14;&amp;version=9;" target="_blank"><span style="font-size:130%;">Colossians 3:12-14</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">, </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew%2012:34;&amp;version=9;" target="_blank"><span style="font-size:130%;">Matthew 12:34</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">, </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Acts%2024:16;&amp;version=9;" target="_blank"><span style="font-size:130%;">Acts 24:16</span></a></p>
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<p>You can follow along here however I really recommend picking up a copy of <a href="http://astore.amazon.com/ebabble0c-20/detail/0805448853/191-1192139-1603839">The Love Dare</a> for yourself. It contains so much more than what I am sharing here. You can purchase one by clicking the appropriate button on my right sidebar to go to my A-Store.</p>
<p>Related posts: <a href="http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/03/loving-my-god-loving-my-man.html" target="_blank">Loving My God, Loving My Man</a>, <a href="http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/03/tune-up-tuesday-double-love-dare.html" target="_blank">Love is Patient</a>, <a href="http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/03/tune-up-tuesday-double-love-dare-2-3.html" target="_blank">Love is Kind &amp; Not Selfish</a>, <a href="http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/04/tune-up-tuesday-thoughtfulness-4.html" target="_blank">Thoughtfulness</a><br />==========================================================</p>
<p><strong><em>Do you have a </em></strong><a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/02/what-is-tune-up-tuesday.html"><strong><em>tune-up </em></strong></a><strong><em>you are working on this week? Are you joining me in the Love Dare? How are you doing? Leave a comment to let us know or add a direct link to your blog post below to encourage and inspire others. Don&#8217;t underestimate the power of accountability &#8211; it&#8217;s a great motivator!</em></strong></p>
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		<title>Tune-Up Tuesday: Down Days &#8211; Where to Focus?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2009 12:32:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A google search of the word &#8216;Tune-Up&#8217; revealed the following definition:An Adjustment for Better FunctioningA search for the definition of &#8216;Adjustment&#8217; revealed the following:A Small Change, A Minor Correction, A ModificationMore on Tune-Up Tuesday here.&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;- While we have been looking at the book The Love Dare for a couple weeks, we are going to take [...]<p>-------------------
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<a href="http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/04/tune-up-tuesday-down-days-where-to-focus.html">Tune-Up Tuesday: Down Days &#8211; Where to Focus?</a> is a post from <a href="http://www.beautifulcalling.ca">Beautiful Calling.</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div align="center"><em></em><a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/02/what-is-tune-up-tuesday.html"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5323896299583156258" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 115px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 200px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Y6VOSNqb-bo/SeJHei2rsCI/AAAAAAAAAco/RwNs12FE2bY/s200/Tune+Up+Tuesday+Logo.png" border="0" /></a> A google search of the word &#8216;Tune-Up&#8217; revealed the following definition:<br />An Adjustment for Better Functioning<br />A search for the definition of &#8216;Adjustment&#8217; revealed the following:<br />A Small Change, A Minor Correction, A Modification<br />More on Tune-Up Tuesday <a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/02/what-is-tune-up-tuesday.html">here</a>.<br />&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-</div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;">While we have been looking at the book </span><a href="http://astore.amazon.com/ebabble0c-20/detail/0805448853"><span style="font-size:130%;">The Love Dare</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;"> for a couple weeks, we are going to take a break this week simply because I wanted to share my about a disastrous week and the &#8216;tune-ups&#8217; I need to do.</p>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;">Do you ever have a &#8220;down day&#8221;? I do. I have them a couple times a year. They creep up from nowhere it seems and catch me unaware. They usually last a day or so and then pass. Well, this time it was a week!</p>
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<div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">My &#8220;Down&#8221; Week:</p>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;">I think it started 2 weeks ago. Everything in life was just peachy and I felt like I really had a handle on life. We were attending all church services again, my home was caught up in order, I was tackling my bigger projects like the garage, desk and the yard.</p>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;">Is it the time of year? Horomones? Belated Baby Blues? Not enough sleep? Then the littles were sick and we missed church. I am also having a tough time getting out to evening and Wednesday night services as the little ones are always tired and grumpy. It also tends to throw them off for a day or so afterwards. I want to attend both services on Sundays, and also the Tuesday ladies bible study and the Wednesday night bible study. I also want to work in the nursery, sing in the Choir and be involved in other things such as clean-up day at church and visitation. I want to be a part of it all and be a contributor.</p>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;">I want to have my home perfectly in order, I want to be caught up on laundry. I want to have wonderful meals ready for my husband each evening. I want to bless my children, husband and others. I want to have everything caught up on my to-do list.</p>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;">So when all of this isn&#8217;t happening and I am not reaching my own ridiculously high standard, I am setting myself up for failure. It started with one day of &#8220;down&#8221; and suddenly my focus was no longer up where it should be. I began to focus on all things I wanted to do, all that I haven&#8217;t been able to do. Focusing on all the negative things and the areas I feel behind in, I fell into a week long slump.</p>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>The Realization:</strong></span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;">Yesterday, I had the opportunity to visit with a new friend. When I left, I pondered our visit and realized that I had just dumped a lot of negativity on this poor woman (which is very uncharacteristic of me)! I was appalled and on the drive home I began to pray.</p>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>The Solution:</p>
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<div align="justify"><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2%20cor%2012:9&amp;version=KJV"><span style="font-size:130%;">2 Corinthians 12:9<br />And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.</p>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;">Why am I dwelling on the fact that I &#8216;feel&#8217; that I am failing in so many areas? I need to refocus. The Lord knew I would feel incompetent and weak. He wrote this verse for me! <a href="http://www.hearthmanagement.com/2009/03/time-management-using-eternity-as-my.html">I need to do only the things he has called me to do</a>, in HIS strength!</p>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>Some Practical Steps:</strong></span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>Let go of that silly &#8220;I need/can do it all&#8221; idea.</strong><em> (</em></span><a href="http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/03/our-beautiful-calling-is-not-all-about.html"><span style="font-size:130%;"><em>I battle with this a lot!</em></span></a><span style="font-size:130%;"><em>)</em></span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>Remember Right Priorities. God is first.</strong> <em>When we forget this (even without intending to), things go sour fast! Evaluate and make sure that <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=isaiah%2055:8;&amp;version=9;">your thoughts line up with His thoughts</a>.</em></span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>Remember Yourself!</strong> <em>We tend to put others, and tasks ahead of ourselves. But if you aren&#8217;t eating right, getting enough sleep, water, exercise &#8211; you&#8217;re going to run out of steam fast!</em></span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>Focus on one task at a time, one day at a time.</strong> <em>It&#8217;s good to have an idea of what the big picture is but sometimes it can be overwhelming!</em></span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>Choose 3 small things to accomplish each day.</strong> <em>I am guilty of writing out a huge to-do list (which is more of a wish list) and then feeling like I&#8217;ve failed at the end of the day when I haven&#8217;t accomplished it.</em></span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;"><em><strong>Don&#8217;t focus on your failures and weaknesses.</strong> Take them to the Lord.</em> <em>When I start focusing on the church services I miss or all the things I am not doing, it brings me down! That is where I am susceptible to all sorts of negative thinking.</em></span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>Work on big tasks 15 minutes at a time (or each day). Use a timer. </strong></span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>Remember the season you are in and adjust accordingly.</strong> <em>Right now my little guy still nurses every 2 2/1 hours+/- at night. My toddler is potty training and still learning to obey. I need to be at home. After talking to my husband, we&#8217;ve decided that now is not the season for Wednesday night services. It is too late for our little ones. It is also not the season for ladies bible study, choir or the other things I desire to do. For right now, success will be attending two services on Sunday. Play dates will be limited to 2 per month, library trips are once a month and grocery shopping once a week. This is not to say that I am chained to my home but rather, with the exception of the above, I will strive to be home. My family is my ministry right now and I can best serve and care for myself and them by being home.</em></span></div>
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		<title>Tune Up Tuesday: Thoughtfulness #4</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 09:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A google search of the word &#8216;Tune-Up&#8217; revealed the following definition: An Adjustment for Better Functioning A search for the definition of &#8216;Adjustment&#8217; revealed the following: A Small Change, A Minor Correction, A Modification More on Tune-Up Tuesday here. &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;- Love is Thoughtful When you were dating, you probably thought of your partner a lot [...]<p>-------------------
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div align="center"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Y6VOSNqb-bo/SdpJ1JCsWkI/AAAAAAAAAYU/edPZl-QZ9i0/s1600-h/Tune+Up+Tuesday+Logo.png"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5321647087000771138" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 115px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 200px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Y6VOSNqb-bo/SdpJ1JCsWkI/AAAAAAAAAYU/edPZl-QZ9i0/s200/Tune+Up+Tuesday+Logo.png" border="0" /></a> A google search of the word &#8216;Tune-Up&#8217; revealed the following definition:</div>
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<div align="center">A search for the definition of &#8216;Adjustment&#8217; revealed the following:</div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;">When you were dating, you probably <em>thought</em> of your partner a lot throughout the day. You <em>thought</em> of what he was up to, or things that you would say to him next time you saw him. You <em>thought</em> of what you would wear for your next date and wanted to make sure it was something you <em>thought</em> he would like. Maybe you <em>thought</em> about the last date you were on, thought of ways you could surprise him for upcoming events. You did things you <em>thought</em> he would like and went places you <em>thought </em>would please him. Perhaps you <em>thought</em> of the future and the wonderful possibilities it contained.</span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;">Notice how many <em>thoughts</em> there are in the above paragraph. All of that thinking came fairly naturally back then didn&#8217;t it?</span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;">Then you got married. Now you have a house to clean, clothes to wash, meals to cook, children to care for and the list goes on. I am sure that you love your spouse more now than you did when you were dating (or I hope you do!) but you know, you may think about him less in the midst of all the other pressing things in your life. I know that I do. Understandable but not excusable.</span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;">Nowadays I wake up, shower and pull on some clothes. I don&#8217;t put as much <em>thought </em>into my clothes as I used to. This is not to say that I have let myself go but rather, I just get dressed without <em>thinking</em> about it. When we were dating, I was very conscious of what I wore on the days that I would see Scott. Now I don&#8217;t mean to say that each day we should spend an hour getting ready, but you know, I could take a few extra moments before he comes home to freshen up. Or I could spend an extra few moments to make myself up a little if we&#8217;re going out or if I am planning a special meal, or every so often just for fun.</span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;">When we were dating, I would snail mail him letters often. Scott has always loved mail so I always <em>thought</em> it would give him a little something to read. One time I put all sorts of pink heart confetti in the letter. It went all over when he opened it. 5+/- years later there is still a pink confetti heart embedded in the insole of one of his shoes. I <em>thought</em> it would be cute&#8230;he didn&#8217;t <em>think </em>it was. So I don&#8217;t recommend the confetti (especially since now I would be the one to clean it up! lol) but are there little things that you used to do that have fallen by the wayside?</span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;">If there are any men reading this&#8230;wives long for <em>thoughtful</em> husbands. <em>Thoughtfulness</em> is a key element in feeling loved.</span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;">This week let&#8217;s be more<em> thoughtful.</em> I like to think that I am <em>thoughtful</em> but there is always room for improvement isn&#8217;t there? You&#8217;ve heard the saying &#8220;to have friends you need to be a friend&#8221;? Well let&#8217;s try, <strong>&#8220;To have a <em>thoughtful </em>spouse, you need to BE a<em> thoughtful</em> spouse&#8221;.</strong> And even if there are no instant results, we still have the satisfaction of knowing that we are glorifying the Lord with our <em>thoughtfulness.</em></span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;">As daughters of the King, how often do we <em>think</em> about God during the day? Do we <em>think</em> about whether or not our activities, attitudes and words are pleasing Him? Or (this one hits home) what He <em>thinks</em> of our priorities each and every day?</span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>Challenge #4: <em>Thoughtfulness</em> towards our Lord, our spouse and our families.<em> Thinking</em> about doing things on purpose to please them.</strong></span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;">Verses: <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Psalm%20139:17-18&amp;version=9">Psalm 139:17-18</a></span></div>
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		<title>Tune-Up Tuesday: Double Love Dare 2 &amp; 3</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[A google search of the word &#8216;Tune-Up&#8217; revealed the following definition:An Adjustment for Better FunctioningA search for the definition of &#8216;Adjustment&#8217; revealed the following:A Small Change, A Minor Correction, A ModificationMore on Tune-Up Tuesday here.&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;- Love is Kind. Love is Not Selfish Last week we talked about how patience is a choice to react and [...]<p>-------------------
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<div align="justify"></strong></span><a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/03/tune-up-tuesday-double-love-dare.html"><span style="font-size:130%;">Last week</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;"> we talked about how patience is a choice to react and respond positively. This week we will think about kindness as a choice; a choice to do BE kind. Kindness is an action. The keys to kindness are choosing to be kind, willingness to put other before ourselves and taking i<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">nitiative</span></span></span>. Take the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">initiative</span> to say and do kind things, be willing to serve and meet needs without worrying about ourselves and our rights.</p>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;"><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=proverbs%2031:26;&amp;version=9;">Mrs. Proverbs 31</a> had it down! Every time do you think? Probably not, but but she won the battle (and it is a battle!) more often than not because she was known for her kindness.</span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;">We are all sinful by nature and therefore we are selfish. Society is filled with Me-<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">ology</span></span></span>. We hear about our needs, our desires, our rights. We think that we &#8220;deserve&#8221; this and that. We need to trust God with our own needs rather than seeking to meet them <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">ourselves</span>. Then we are free to focus on others. Pastor Walsh preached a message on love last month at church. He said that loving God with all your heart will not come naturally and that you need to practice and persevere. Kindness and unselfishness are things that we need to practice too. Our first attempts may be fumbling but as we exercise them, they will begin to come more naturally.</span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;">Another thing mom and I were talking about (other than <a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/03/my-mother-and-i-were-talking-other-day.html">biting your tongue</a>) was motive. We need to make sure we are motive is <a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/02/for-glory-of-god-part-1.html">love for God</a> and not <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Philippians%202:3;&amp;version=9;">personal glory</a> and <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=matt%206:5-6;&amp;version=9;">bragging rights.</a></span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>Challenge #3</strong> What you put your time, <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">energy</span> and money into will become more important to you. Invest one of these in your spouse today.</span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;">Verses: </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ephesians%204:32;&amp;version=9;"><span style="font-size:130%;">Ephesians 4:32</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">, </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%2031:26;&amp;version=9;"><span style="font-size:130%;">Proverbs 31:26</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">, </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Romans%2012:10;&amp;version=9;"><span style="font-size:130%;">Romans 12:10</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">, </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1%20Corinthians%2013:5;&amp;version=9;"><span style="font-size:130%;">1 <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">Corinthians</span> 13:5</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">, </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Philippians%202:3;&amp;version=9;"><span style="font-size:130%;">Philippians 2:3</span></a></div>
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<div align="justify"><em><span style="font-size:130%;">Do you have a </span></em><a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/02/what-is-tune-up-tuesday.html"><em><span style="font-size:130%;">tune-up </span></em></a><em><span style="font-size:130%;">you are working on? Are you joining me in the Double Love Dare? How are you doing? Leave a comment to let us know or add a direct link to your blog post below to encourage and inspire others. Don&#8217;t underestimate the power of accountability &#8211; it&#8217;s a great motivator! </span></em></div>
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		<title>Tune-Up Tuesday Status Report</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2009 19:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Having cleaned up my kitchen, and with my littles still down, I thought I would sit down and catch you up on some Tune-Up Tuesday progress! For those who are not familiar with Tune Up Tuesday please start here. Tune Up Tuesday is my day to share with you the tiny little step that I [...]<p>-------------------
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Y6VOSNqb-bo/SdErnol4-nI/AAAAAAAAAWc/rJgcmA9pLvg/s1600-h/Tune+Up+Tuesday+Logo.png"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5319080594812500594" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 115px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 200px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Y6VOSNqb-bo/SdErnol4-nI/AAAAAAAAAWc/rJgcmA9pLvg/s200/Tune+Up+Tuesday+Logo.png" border="0" /></a> <span style="font-size:130%;">Having cleaned up my kitchen, and with my <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">littles</span></span> still down, I thought I would sit down and catch you up on some Tune-Up Tuesday progress! </span></p>
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<div><span style="font-size:130%;">For those who are not familiar with Tune Up Tuesday please start </span><a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/02/what-is-tune-up-tuesday.html"><span style="font-size:130%;">here</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">.</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size:130%;">Tune Up Tuesday is my day to share with you the tiny little step that I am taking each week to become more Christ-like. Some weeks my tiny little step is more spiritual than others but each challenge that I complete makes me more like the woman He wants me to be. (Tuesdays are also your opportunity to share if you want!)</span></div>
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<li><span style="font-size:130%;">Focusing on </span><a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/02/tune-up-tuesday-challenge_21.html"><span style="font-size:130%;">eating my meals</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">, I have more energy to get through my day accomplishing the things He has for me. I am healthier. And I am losing weight!! Slowly, but that baby weight is coming off. Hurray! </span></li>
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<li><a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/03/tune-up-tuesday-my-desk.html"><span style="font-size:130%;">My desk</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;"> is a sore point. Though it is more organized than it was, it is still in progress. Organization in this area will really streamline so much in our home. It always seems to be on the bottom of the priority list though. I do hope to finish up with it in the next week.</span></li>
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<li><span style="font-size:130%;">My </span><a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/03/tune-up-tuesday-bible-reading.html"><span style="font-size:130%;">bible reading</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;"> is mostly <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">consistant</span></span> in the morning and has improved in the evening. I still desire to read my bible more and to have a greater love for it. The Lord and His Word are part of the focus of my tune-up challenge </span><a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/03/loving-my-god-loving-my-man.html"><span style="font-size:130%;">Loving My God, Loving My Man</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">.</span></li>
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<li><span style="font-size:130%;">Last week was the </span><a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/03/tune-up-tuesday-double-love-dare.html"><span style="font-size:130%;">first tune up</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;"> in </span><a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/03/loving-my-god-loving-my-man.html"><span style="font-size:130%;">The Double Love Dare</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">. We looked at patience and were challenged to say nothing negative. I am not a negative person, and while I am certainly well aware of the fact that I have not yet &#8220;arrived&#8221;, I think that generally I am a fairly good wife. Last week I was surprised at how many things I said (or thought) that were in some way critical or negative. I am happy to say that there were many times that </span><a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/03/my-mother-and-i-were-talking-other-day.html"><span style="font-size:130%;">I bit my tongue</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;"> and prayed for help however the instances <em>when I didn&#8217;t </em>were too many for my liking! Still an area with a lot of room for improvement!</span></li>
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<div><span style="font-size:130%;"><em><strong>Tomorrow is the next <a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/02/what-is-tune-up-tuesday.html">Tune-Up Tuesday Challenge</a> in <a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/03/loving-my-god-loving-my-man.html">Loving My God, Loving My Man</a>. I hope you will join me.</strong></em></span></div>
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<div><em><span style="font-size:130%;">If you want to give a tune-up report, link up to tomorrows post! Or of course, leave a comment!</span></em></div>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2009 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A google search of the word &#8216;Tune-Up&#8217; revealed the following definition: An Adjustment for Better Functioning A search for the definition of &#8216;Adjustment&#8217; revealed the following: A Small Change, A Minor Correction, A Modification More on Tune-Up Tuesday here.&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;- Love is not just a feeling but a choice; a decision. On Tune-Up Tuesday for the [...]<p>-------------------
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<div align="center"><em>A google search of the word &#8216;Tune-Up&#8217; revealed the following definition: </em></div>
<div align="center"><em>An Adjustment for Better Functioning </em></div>
<div align="center"><em>A search for the definition of &#8216;Adjustment&#8217; revealed the following: </em></div>
<div align="center"><em>A Small Change, A Minor Correction, A Modification </em></div>
<div align="center"><em>More on Tune-Up Tuesday <a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/02/what-is-tune-up-tuesday.html">here</a>.<br />&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-</em></div>
<p><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><em>Love is not just a feeling but a choice; a decision.</em></strong> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:130%;">On </span><a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/02/what-is-tune-up-tuesday.html"><span style="font-size:130%;">Tune-Up Tuesday</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;"> for the next couple of months will be going through </span><a href="http://astore.amazon.com/ebabble0c-20/detail/0805448853"><span style="font-size:130%;">The Love Dare</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;"> and, as I mention here in </span><a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/03/loving-my-god-loving-my-man.html"><span style="font-size:130%;">Loving My God, Loving My Man</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">, it&#8217;s going to be a DOUBLE LOVE DARE! The book was written to be a 40 day challenge to better love your spouse. I have decided to take a day or two at a time each Tuesday and work on them for the duration of the week. This journey will not be an easy one as we learn to die to self to love our God and our spouse more. It is not for the faint of heart. This adventure will take determination but it will be fufilling and have lasting eternal benefits. This journey is a marathon &#8211; not a sprint. At least that, in a nutshell, is what the introduction tells me.</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">Challenge #1 Love is Patient</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="font-size:130%;">Love is patience and <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">kindness</span>. Choosing to be patient is choosing take a deep breath, a moment to think and then to <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">respond</span> positively to negativity or a negative situation. The Love Dare defines it as &#8220;an internal calm during an external storm&#8221;. This photo below is &#8220;<a href="http://www.outdoor-photos.com/photo/33486.html">inside the storm</a>&#8220;. Amazingly calm isn&#8217;t it? That can be us with the help of the Lord!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:130%;"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316498553272550786" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 200px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 127px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Y6VOSNqb-bo/Scf_RCSwRYI/AAAAAAAAATM/VCqOQahTWQ8/s200/Calm+in+Storm.jpg" border="0" /></span><span style="font-size:130%;">Impatience often causes us to react in ways that we later regret or say things that we wish we could take back! Impatience is far too often the result of our own selfishness.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">Patience is a choice. A choice to control your emotions, words and actions rather than letting them control you. And it certainly doesn&#8217;t come naturally &#8211; at least not to me!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>The Challenge:</strong> Do not say anything negative. And if you don&#8217;t have anything nice to say &#8211; don&#8217;t say anything at all. I think this extends to tone as well. Often, we (or I at least) can say something that is, not in itself, negative but depending on how I say it, it can be provoking.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:130%;">Verses: </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=james%201:19;&amp;version=9;"><span style="font-size:130%;">James 1:19</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">, </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1%20thess%205:15;&amp;version=9;"><span style="font-size:130%;">1 <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Thess</span></span>. 5:15</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">, </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=prov%2014:29;&amp;version=9;"><span style="font-size:130%;">Prov. 14:29</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">, </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=prov%2015:18;&amp;version=9;"><span style="font-size:130%;">Prov. 15:18</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">, </span><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=eph%204:2;&amp;version=9;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">Ephesians</span> 4:2</span></a></p>
<p>You can follow along here, however I really <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">recommend</span> picking up a copy of The Love Dare for yourself. It contains so much more than what I am sharing here. You can purchase one by clicking the appropriate flag on my right sidebar to go to my A-Store.<br /><span style="font-size:130%;">===============================================</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:130%;"><em>Do you have a </em><a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/02/what-is-tune-up-tuesday.html"><em>tune-up </em></a><em>you are working on? Are you joining me in the Double Love Dare? How are you doing? Leave a comment to let us know or add a direct link to your blog post below to encourage and inspire others. Don&#8217;t underestimate the power of accountability &#8211; it&#8217;s a great motivator!</em> </span></p>
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		<title>Loving My God, Loving My Man!</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Friday night Chloe, my 2 year old, slept over at her Grandparents so Scott &#38; I (and baby John) had a date night all planned! Scott was off work at 3:00pm so we went grocery shopping, to the movie store, the Chinese take-out and home again for our &#8220;date&#8221;. This was planned early on in [...]<p>-------------------
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Jenn is wife to one, mother of three and above all, a humble servant seeking to honor the Lord with her life.
<a href="http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/03/loving-my-god-loving-my-man.html">Loving My God, Loving My Man!</a> is a post from <a href="http://www.beautifulcalling.ca">Beautiful Calling.</a></p>
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<div><span style="font-size:130%;">Friday night <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Chloe</span>, my 2 year old, slept over at her Grandparents so Scott &amp; I (and baby John) had a date night all planned! Scott was off work at 3:00pm so we went grocery shopping, to the movie store, the Chinese take-out and home again for our &#8220;date&#8221;. This was planned early on in the week but it did line up with a post that I read Friday morning on </span><a href="http://www.hearthmanagement.com/2009/03/stay-at-home-date-night.html"><span style="font-size:130%;">Date Night at Home</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">. After reading that, I ensured that I put a little more effort than usual into my appearance and wore makeup and heeled pink sandals (Yes, I was freezing!)</span></div>
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<div><span style="font-size:130%;">Anyway, we had wonderful Chinese food while snuggling on the couch watching the movie </span><a href="http://www.fireproofthemovie.com/"><span style="font-size:130%;">&#8220;Fireproof&#8221;</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">. The movie and book were created by Alex and Stephen Kendrick who serve on the pastoral staff at Sherwood Baptist Church in Albany, GA. It is the story of a couple whose marriage is in trouble and how they come to know the Lord. During the movie, the father shares with his son </span><a href="http://thelovedarebook.com/"><span style="font-size:130%;">&#8220;The Love Dare&#8221;</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;"> which according to the movie is a 40 day <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">journey</span> to truly loving your spouse. Some of the &#8220;dares&#8221; for each day included saying nothing negative, doing something unexpected, contact them at an <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">unexpected</span> time to let them know you were thinking of them etc.</span></div>
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<div><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">While I am generally not a person given to run with the latest craze, the idea of a Love Dare intrigued me. Saturday, as I pondered it further, I was thinking about how we not only need to love our spouses more deeply and truly, but our Heavenly Father as well. I decided then that I would purchase <a href="http://thelovedarebook.com/">The Love Dare </a>and work through it, not only to be a blessing to my husband and to work on loving him more, but to deepen my relationship with the Lord as well.</span> </strong></div>
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<div><span style="font-size:130%;">In the bible, God has laid out the blueprint by which we should build our relationships. He has established a perfect order: God, Spouse, Children and then everything else. The first two, my relationship with God then my spouse, are the foundation of my home. Builders know how important solid foundations are and God is the Master builder! He has set this order because he created us to thrive when we are following this pattern he has laid out. I wish that I could stand up and boldly proclaim that I have arrived and my ducks are all in a row. However, especially in this season of my life with a 2 year old (sometimes two of them) and a baby, I have to admit that many times my order is completely backward with priority on my children, then spouse and God gets what is left.<br /></span><span style="font-size:130%;"></div>
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<div><span style="font-size:130%;">Don&#8217;t get me wrong, I have a great relationship with my Lord and my spouse. I love them both! But I know I could love them more; to love less selfishly. I hope to deepen and <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">strengthen</span> both of these relationships. Over the next several weeks, I will be reading through The Love Dare and working on implementing these actions (&amp; proof of my love) into my life. In considering this challenge, I can certainly say that this falls into the <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">category</span> of &#8216;tune-up&#8221; and therefore, over the next ? weeks it will be the </span><a href="http://beautifulcalling.blogspot.com/2009/02/what-is-tune-up-tuesday.html"><span style="font-size:130%;">Tune-Up Tuesday </span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">focus. I will be posting the challenges online, if you&#8217;d like to purchase you own copy of the book, visit my A-Store on the right hand column.</span></p>
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<div><span style="font-size:130%;">I encourage you to come along on the DOUBLE LOVE DARE: TO LOVE GOD &amp; HIS WORD MORE AND TO LOVE YOUR SPOUSE &amp; FAMILY MORE. Participate when you are able. As with all of my Tune-Up Tuesdays, there will be a Mr. <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">Linky</span> so if you want to post along with me, link up! The links are up indefinitely so if Tuesdays don&#8217;t work for you, pick a day that does. For non-<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">bloggers</span>, the comment section is always open to you. </span><span style="font-size:130%;"></p>
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<div><em><span style="font-size:130%;">A journey is more fun with company and surely I&#8217;m not the only one who could love my God or husband better! </span><span style="font-size:130%;">With that being said, tomorrow morning will be our first challenge. I&#8217;ll see you then!</span></em></div>
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Jenn is wife to one, mother of three and above all, a humble servant seeking to honor the Lord with her life.
<a href="http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/03/loving-my-god-loving-my-man.html">Loving My God, Loving My Man!</a> is a post from <a href="http://www.beautifulcalling.ca">Beautiful Calling.</a></p>
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