Comments on: Death Before Birth: The Good Things Part IV http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/07/death-before-birth-good-things-part-iv.html Fri, 10 Feb 2012 12:39:35 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Sophia http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/07/death-before-birth-good-things-part-iv.html/comment-page-1#comment-32805 Sophia Mon, 08 Aug 2011 02:57:06 +0000 http://www.ebabble.net/beautifulcalling/2009/07/death-before-birth-the-good-things-part-iv.html#comment-32805 I just found your blog as I was reading about miscarriage, and I really appreciate your writing these things. I was married almost year ago, and I miscarried our first child almost two months ago. It has been very difficult. Every time I think I'm back on my feet I am surprised by some new reminder. But they say that grief is a process... and I'm only two months into that process. I know God has a plan in it, and I trust Him. I can already see some of the good He has worked in it. But I still miss my little Christian. Thank you for writing this series--it really has helped. :-) I just found your blog as I was reading about miscarriage, and I really appreciate your writing these things.

I was married almost year ago, and I miscarried our first child almost two months ago. It has been very difficult. Every time I think I’m back on my feet I am surprised by some new reminder. But they say that grief is a process… and I’m only two months into that process.

I know God has a plan in it, and I trust Him. I can already see some of the good He has worked in it. But I still miss my little Christian.

Thank you for writing this series–it really has helped. :-)

]]> By: Death Before Birth: Isaiah’s Story Part III http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/07/death-before-birth-good-things-part-iv.html/comment-page-1#comment-29104 Death Before Birth: Isaiah’s Story Part III Wed, 18 May 2011 18:52:16 +0000 http://www.ebabble.net/beautifulcalling/2009/07/death-before-birth-the-good-things-part-iv.html#comment-29104 [...] The Good Things [...] [...] The Good Things [...]

]]> By: Death Before Birth: Helping Others; What NOT to Say…) http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/07/death-before-birth-good-things-part-iv.html/comment-page-1#comment-24187 Death Before Birth: Helping Others; What NOT to Say…) Sun, 20 Feb 2011 21:50:22 +0000 http://www.ebabble.net/beautifulcalling/2009/07/death-before-birth-the-good-things-part-iv.html#comment-24187 [...] the same as sickness and diseases. They were not a part of God’s perfect plan but He can use them for good and to accomplish things in our lives if we allow Him too. I’m not a pastor, or a scholar and I don’t have all the answers. These are [...] [...] the same as sickness and diseases. They were not a part of God’s perfect plan but He can use them for good and to accomplish things in our lives if we allow Him too. I’m not a pastor, or a scholar and I don’t have all the answers. These are [...]

]]> By: tarena http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/07/death-before-birth-good-things-part-iv.html/comment-page-1#comment-9937 tarena Wed, 19 May 2010 05:08:58 +0000 http://www.ebabble.net/beautifulcalling/2009/07/death-before-birth-the-good-things-part-iv.html#comment-9937 ps...I was going to let you know that there have been a few things that have helped me to grieve/mourn the loss in my life this past year: I read the Bible a LOT, but I also read any book I could get my hands on to cheer me up. I read one by Barbara Johnson and one piece of advice that stuck out to me was that she would put on sad music to help her. For me it has been a sad/emotional movie. I think I have filed away my emotions to be able to cope and survive daily...this has helped me to relieve some of those tears. Steven Curtis Chapmans CD "Spring is Coming" has also helped with bringing tears and also to remember that God has good things planed. The classic book/devotional Streams in the Desert is amazing. The DVD series by Louie Giglio (www.268generation.com) about why bad things happen and yet how great our God is, is simply outstanding...many tears flowed through watching them. I highly recommend them! (Hope: When Life Hurts Most is the best one on grieving, but all four in the series work together, so if you can afford it-get all four! http://268store.com/store/product/224/Hope%3A-When-Life-Hurts-Most-DVD/ I hope this can help someone!!!) ok...that's all! =) blessings! ps…I was going to let you know that there have been a few things that have helped me to grieve/mourn the loss in my life this past year:

I read the Bible a LOT, but I also read any book I could get my hands on to cheer me up. I read one by Barbara Johnson and one piece of advice that stuck out to me was that she would put on sad music to help her. For me it has been a sad/emotional movie. I think I have filed away my emotions to be able to cope and survive daily…this has helped me to relieve some of those tears.

Steven Curtis Chapmans CD “Spring is Coming” has also helped with bringing tears and also to remember that God has good things planed.

The classic book/devotional Streams in the Desert is amazing.

The DVD series by Louie Giglio (www.268generation.com) about why bad things happen and yet how great our God is, is simply outstanding…many tears flowed through watching them. I highly recommend them! (Hope: When Life Hurts Most is the best one on grieving, but all four in the series work together, so if you can afford it-get all four! http://268store.com/store/product/224/Hope%3A-When-Life-Hurts-Most-DVD/ I hope this can help someone!!!)

ok…that’s all! =)
blessings!

]]> By: tarena http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/07/death-before-birth-good-things-part-iv.html/comment-page-1#comment-9932 tarena Wed, 19 May 2010 04:30:25 +0000 http://www.ebabble.net/beautifulcalling/2009/07/death-before-birth-the-good-things-part-iv.html#comment-9932 This series was beautiful. Thank you for all your hard work in putting this together. We had two babies go Home to Jesus this year and each little encouraging thing I read brings me that much closer to healing. May the Lord bless you! This series was beautiful. Thank you for all your hard work in putting this together.
We had two babies go Home to Jesus this year and each little encouraging thing I read brings me that much closer to healing.
May the Lord bless you!

]]> By: Death Before Birth: Coping and Survival http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/07/death-before-birth-good-things-part-iv.html/comment-page-1#comment-9178 Death Before Birth: Coping and Survival Wed, 12 May 2010 11:28:45 +0000 http://www.ebabble.net/beautifulcalling/2009/07/death-before-birth-the-good-things-part-iv.html#comment-9178 [...] Posts: Miscarriage Basics, Isaiah’s Story Part I and Isaiah’s  Part II and Part III, The Good Things, The Grief [...] [...] Posts: Miscarriage Basics, Isaiah’s Story Part I and Isaiah’s  Part II and Part III, The Good Things, The Grief [...]

]]> By: Death Before Birth: A Mini Series about Miscarriage http://www.beautifulcalling.ca/2009/07/death-before-birth-good-things-part-iv.html/comment-page-1#comment-9177 Death Before Birth: A Mini Series about Miscarriage Wed, 12 May 2010 11:28:26 +0000 http://www.ebabble.net/beautifulcalling/2009/07/death-before-birth-the-good-things-part-iv.html#comment-9177 [...] The Good Things [...] [...] The Good Things [...]

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